Just be yourself was the cliche dating and interview advice. Today, this axiom has been replaced with something along the lines of showing up as your genuine, authentic, whole self. But what if society isn’t ready for your authentic self? And what if your honesty could make life a lot harder? Alex and Ellie tackle the thorny issue of why so many people in non-traditional lifestyles want to stay discreet, and talk to author Skylar Quinn about what it’s like to live a double life.
Resources and further reading…
– Skylar Quinn | Amazon | X/Twitter | Medium
– Out Of DSM: Depathologizing Homosexuality
– BDSM Versus The DSM
– Lawrence v. Texas: The End Of Sodomy Laws In The United States
– The Time Swedes Called In Gay To Work In 1979
– Prosecution Of Erotic Fiction Web Host Tests Obscenity Laws
episode 22: silence of the kinks